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Impact of Coronavirus in My World

5/2/2020

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​It’s hard to believe that only a month and a half ago we were just beginning to be wary of close contact with friends. In what feels like nanoseconds, social distancingbecame the watchword for staying healthy and masks and gloves de rigueur. 
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​Heeding proclamations by New Mexico’s Governor, Michele Lujan Grisham, I’m pretty well hunkered down with occasional breaks for desert-air walks in our ‘hood or pick-up of groceries ordered online, supplemented by an unexpected visit to Walgreens for an RX where I found dishwasher Finish packets and disinfectant for toilets.  “It doesn’t matter what it says,” Frank said, when I pointed out reference to “toilets.”  “Disinfectant is disinfectant.”  On these pick-up ventures, we’re masked and gloved.  Our nearest neighbor offered to get whatever she could find at Costco in Albuquerque:  paper towels : ) I’m spending a lot more time in the kitchen, a decided change from our habit of going out a couple of nights a week.  For my birthday on April 3, we ordered take-out from Sassella, a wonderful downtown restaurant – delish.  
 
Tomorrow was supposed to be the Santa Fe Symphony’s Annual Spring Gala, a major fundraiser, at the beautiful Eldorado Hotel & Spa: Lumière, A Night on Bourbon Street.  One of the decorative elements?  Masks! Because of the virus, lots of performance cancellations.  The Board took up a collection for the musicians, many of whom under the best of circumstances are financially strapped, but they’ll need more.  
 
Meanwhile, Frank has a bone-on-bone hip issue but until elective surgery is back, he’s toughing it out.  Thanks to Zoom, we’re not totally isolated.  I take Balance and Yoga classes twice a week – not nearly as gratifying as in-person but I’m grateful to be able to do his without having to leave home. And Frank, as president of the Santa Fe Symphony, is able to hold regular Board meetings. This should be an opportunity for me to write but for many days I was so consumed with awful news that I couldn’t quiet myself mentally or emotionally to do much of anything.  On the plus side, I’ve been in touch with nephews in Houston and cousins in Washington and Oregon.
 
I subscribed to StoryWorth for Frank who’s really taken to it.  He receives or makes up one question a week, e.g., What do you remember about your grandparents?  Your first boss?  You email your responses, including scanned photos, to StoryWorth and after a year or so, you’ll have a book that may interest your children and theirs. I learned about StoryWorth from Maxine Neely Davenport, a marvelous local author (mysteries and sort stories) with a lifetime of accomplishment (went to law school at age 40 and climbed twenty-six 14,000-foot high mountains), who died after suffering severe injuries in a car crash just before the virus hit Santa Fe.
 
We’ve been invited to a virtual cocktail party this evening.  Think I’ll put on a pair of earrings to dress up my jeans, grungy top and comfy slippers.  BTW, we’ve become addicted to the daily New York Times Spelling Bee that we play on our iPhones. Don’t like to stop ‘til we’ve attained Genius, which can lead to near-sleepless nights.
 
A few good things about being quarantined at home per Frank with a few additions by me:

  1. getting to know your spouse
  2. being with people you really like through Zoom and not having to go to boring social events
  3. learning how to cook and being innovative
  4. ordering in (if not 3 above) restaurant food, providing your own wine - less costly
  5. doing home projects you always meant to but . . .
  6. and reading books you always intended to but . . .
  7. getting in touch with people you care about but who were not in your daily life
  8. learning how to do things out-of-the-box
  9. having the time to think and meditate about life, goals, etc. without the distraction of your usual pace and activities
  10. enjoying the freedom to slow down and relax
  11. understanding what is really important rather than having to put on pretenses or fancy clothes
  12. realizing our commonality as we all are now in the “same boat”
  13. developing a greater appreciation for life and freedom
  14. becoming creative
  15. saving money on vanity fare, e.g., makeup, hair, facials, pedicures
  16. learning, thanks to Zoom, new ways to continue fitness classes 
  17. appreciating new addictions such as the New York Times Spelling Bee on iPhone
  18. savoring more uninterrupted time, if so inclined, to write
 
1 Comment
Diana Vera
5/4/2020 01:02:08 pm

Hi Shirley
I don’t know if this is a way to write s proper hello. I enjoyed your blog and reflections. Needless to say we are in the same boat. I was to be in France this week with my sister. We had two new grandchildren by both boys born during the quarantine. Mackenzie Elizabeth and Vincenzo the latest. We were to go to Virginia for birth but hope to in July. Arturo is painting ever day in his studio. He is the only artist there. I take Zoom yoga from Paris and Italian and French. I love the teachers but find the medium challenging. We are watching MHz mysteries on Amazon and enjoyed The Embassy in Spanish, Daughter of the Law in Portuguese and Murder by the Lake in German. Happy belated birthday and all our best to Frank. We wish him a successful operation.
Love and hugs! Diana and Arturo

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