When Banged-Up Heart was published, I traveled the country to do book readings -- in book stores, private homes and libraries. Thanks to my enterprising publicist, I did TV and podcast interviews and sent my book to anyone who evinced an interest in reading and reviewing it. Encouraged by other authors, I entered non-fiction competitions and started winning awards. When offered a seat at the Homegrown Authors table at the Santa Fe Farmers Market, I jumped at the chance to fill it. Behind the scenes, I joined a small group of authors to talk about marketing. With their help, I honed my elevator pitch for face-to-face encounters with tourists as well as Santa Fe locals at the market. “Are you writing another book?” people often asked. “Not now,” I said. I couldn’t imagine getting off the promotion treadmill long enough to take a deep breath, let alone write. But the question rattled around in my brain: Would I, should I, could I write another book? There was the book I had planned to write when I retired – about wise women between the ages of 60 and 90. “That’s a whole other skill set,” editor Morgan Farley said. “You know how to write a memoir. Why not write another?”
At book readings, several people had asked, “Will you write about your Greek lover, who I mention fleetingly in Banged-Up Heart? “Oh, I don’t think so,” I’d said. If I were to write another memoir, I wanted to explore something that had befuddled and pained me since I turned eighteen. Last year, just about this time, I started writing Memoir #2, an exploration of the relationship with my troubled mother. And then one day this summer, I realized I was no longer writing about the relationship with my mother. I hadn’t forgotten her but in telling my story, I found myself in Greece. And now, aided by letters and journal entries, I’m writing about my Greek lover! So, where am I with this? In an earlier post, I wrote about moving with my husband Frank from the village of Galisteo closer to Santa Fe in January. The move interrupted my writing big-time but while it slowed me, it didn’t stop me. As you probably know, Banged-Up Heart took six years -- three years to write a first draft and almost that long to rewrite. Having learned a lot from that experience, I’m on a much faster track. That said, I’m feeling the press of quickly passing time. Late this summer I decided to go full bore with Memoir #2, putting into it as much time and energy as I could muster. Homegrown Authors, the brainstorm of author Maxine Neely Davenport, was an energy-depleting labor of love I could no longer afford. Every Tuesday, beginning in May, I would wake at 5 a.m. in order to get to the market by 6:30 a.m. for the 7:00 a.m. opening. By the end of the day I had no energy to write. With a heavy heart, I “sold” my seat at the Homegrown Authors table to another local author so that I could put my Farmers Market energy into Memoir #2. Today I say NO more often than YES to daytime lunch dates and other non-book-related temptations but reserve evenings to be with Frank. I’m deep into my story but I have a ways to go. Please stay tuned.
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Maxine Davenport
12/4/2019 01:39:18 pm
Shirley, I'm delighted to hear that you now have an audio of your first book and that the second is in the works. I'm not surprised at your progress nor of the awards you win. I miss our marketing meetings but must admit my interest in that end of the business of publishing is weak. My own time has been spent on the writing of a memoir type book I've been doing for StoryWorth. My daughter and I are in the process of approving the final design etc. of LIFETIME MEMORIES and hope it will be out in a few weeks.
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I'm Shirley Melis. You may know me as Shirley M. Nagelschmidt, Shirley M. Bessey and now, Shirley M. Hirsch. Each reflects a particular phase of my life. Banged-Up Heart is a slice of my life's journey and in telling my story, I'm giving voice to my long silent "M" by reclaiming my maiden name, Shirley Melis. Archives
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